Turn your tweens' next party into a mall scavenger hunt. Credit: Pink Sherbet, Flickr
Just ask Lisa Kothari. The owner of Peppers and Pollywogs used to plan big budget children's parties in some of the nation's biggest cities. But even Kothari admits tweens are tough. They are too old to let Mom and Dad make all the decisions, and peer pressure is running at an all time high, she warns.
"They are not children where the parents plan everything," Kothari says. "And they're not teens who are almost lackadaisical about their parties, who just want to hang out with their friends."
Fortunately there's one place no tween ever said no to: The mall.
"A mall scavenger hunt is a great idea for a tween party," Kothari tells Holidash. And while the parents chill out in the food court, the kids take over the mall -- and leave your house as clean as it was when you left it.
Kothari tells us how make it happen:
1. Divide the guests into two teams to complete the scavenger hunt is fun and the kids can work together to find the stuff around the mall. Designate an equal amount of money for each team to spend on different items on their list.
2. "I love the idea of not giving out the next clue until the kids have brought back the previous item," Kothari says. The clues can be anything you want, like "find a farm animal," "find an item that says 'whatever' on it," etc. One caveat: Tell the kids to not get "junky" items since they will serve as the "goodies" that are taken home at the end of the party.
3. The object is to get the nicest thing for the least amount of money. As a further incentive, you could also let the team with the most amount of money left over keep their change.
4. For an added challenge, you could give the kids a list of things that are free in the shops. For example, a business card, job application or a shopping bag. For this portion of the hunt, you have the first team back to the table with the free stuff win something special, like lip glosses or something small that you can hand out to every team member.
5. If you want to have the guests do something kooky, have them ask an employee where the bathroom or food court is located. Even funnier, have them ask these questions to employees in stores that are obviously close to the bathroom or food court. You could also have them sing a song in the mall together (since they may be shy as individuals) or skip down the center with arms entwined. Silly stuff like that would be fun and can be done as a group. Just make sure to check the mall rules before encouraging any behavior that might disturb other shoppers.
The best part of the hunt? "You can enjoy your coffee at the mall food court throughout the entire party!" Kothari says.

caroleiseman,3-14-2010, 11:31AM
Great idea. what fun. I also found a fun idea for a tweens party at Celebration Ideas Online (www.celebrationideasonline.com/family-celebration-ideas.html) in the Family Fun section.. a kind of survivor.fearfactor challenge game that you can do yourself.
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capability,3-14-2010, 12:09PM
Bother the store help to ammuse some little tween...wow! great idea....the mall is a place for folks to shop, not a place for tweens to act like fools. Sales staff has to clean up after them, spend time with them, and give them cards and applications? What a horrible idea this is.
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capability,3-14-2010, 12:10PM
as little money as possible? Great way to encourage shoplifting...which the tweens, by they are the most likely to do.
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Connie,3-14-2010, 12:56PM
how about buying each team a disposable digital camera - and snap the items insteading of buying.
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rosie,3-14-2010, 1:58PM
the camera idea, i think, is a good one
sergio,3-14-2010, 2:43PM
KEEP YOUR NASTY BRATS AT HOME ! The mall isn't a babysitting hall for you.
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talkinturtles,3-14-2010, 4:36PM
capability & sergio ----- what is your problem? you hate kids or something? not every teenager shoplifts. and i don't think kids searching thru the mall is going to ruin all the others shopper's day. she isn't advocating teens running amuck thru the mall. they can still have manners. my kids did a scavenger hunt with camera's there. they even had to get pictures of people at the mall (with their permission) that looked like celebrities or had to find people that were doctors, construction workers, etc. and be in the picture with them. a lot of people had a great time with that and the ones that didn't want to participate said no thank you. i don't think it infringed on anyones time too drastically and the people that got in the pictures with them had a fun time too. the mall is full of teenagers. let them have fun. i've run into just as may rude and obnoxious adults at the mall as i have kids. i do believe that you should teach your kids to be respectful of other people and mind their manners no matter where they are.
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bgs,3-14-2010, 3:38PM
I agree that the mall isn't the place for a lot of tweens to be running around the mall. The last thing I want when I am shopping is screaming, running kids trying to "hurry" to get something for a mall party. This is a horrible idea. The mall isn't the park. And bothering sales clerks who are trying to work and make a living is a waste of their time. Try having a scavenger hunt at your church or park and hide the items with clues. We had scavenger hunts in our neighborhood with kids going out in pairs asking for things like rubber bands, matches, toothpicks, bandaids, etc. you can give them different lists so they don't hit them up for the very same items and they have a certain amount of time (30 min) to collect as many items as they can. You might send them to friend's houses only or your friends in the neighborhood and tell them what you are doing ahead of time.
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bgs,3-14-2010, 3:42PM
talkinturtles--they don't have to hate kids to not want them running through the mall looking for items. I have been in the mall when kids were running "amuck" as you stated. If the parents are going to do this they should 1) not bother sales clerks who are trying to work by asking stupid questions and 2) they should NOT be allowed to run. If they are caught running, they are eliminated or something. I almost got knocked down by some kids running through the mall acting stupid. These are the probably the same parents who think it's okay for kids to run around restaurants--don't even get me started on kids manners in restaurants and the parents who allow them to act that way. Yes, I have three grown children so I am not anti-children either.
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KatieCouric'sNemesis,3-14-2010, 4:03PM
What a ludicrous idea...money money money...spend spend spend. Hogwash.
Take the little darlings to a museum and have your scavenger hunt there. Arm them with questions that must be answered (and limit the number that may be answered by a docent.
Stop teaching kids that shopping is the ONLY entertainment. Teach them, instead, that a scavenger hunt is not only FUN, but INFORMATIONAL, as well.
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Anna,3-14-2010, 4:32PM
Wow.... People, settle down! As a tween, I hate those bratty ones, too. But for many families with tween girls, they teach them some manners. Families with no standards really frustrate me as much as the frustrate you.
And actually, this is a pretty bad idea for a party. It will waste money, it's really tiring, and suggestions like that are not 'kooky'. Parents who would think of this as a fun idea would also not let their kids listen to Insert Singer Here because 'she sings about her first kiss, and that's just WRONG!'
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talkinturtles,3-15-2010, 1:40PM
good for you anna! see people.... tweens can have manners! i'm not advocating running thru the mall and pestering sales clerks. i just don't see a problem with kids being AT the mall doing their own thing. i agree with anna that this idea would be wasting money. i like the idea with the digital camera much better. no film, no cost at all. the kids loved looking thru the pictures afterwards too. i hate being run down by kids at the mall just as much as anyone else. some of the kids can be downright scary. but, teens being there and MINDING THEIR MANNERS would not be a problem for me at all.
Diane,3-14-2010, 7:08PM
We threw this scavenger hunt party at our mall several years ago. It works best to divide your party into four groups. If you can, find a mall where the kids take team pictures in a photo booth to take home (and one for the birthday girl). If there is a party store, have each team buy a mylar balloon for the birthday kid, and tie them on her chair in the food court for when she is opening presents. We gave all of the scavenger hunt items (everything from book marks to candy bars) to the birthday girl, and had cute goody bags already made up for each guest. Then we hit the movies in the mall. Great party!
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