Cake Boss Buddy Valastro tells you how to get the perfect cake. Credit: Getty images
The month of June is especially packed with celebrations that call for special cakes: weddings, graduations and Gemini birthdays. With all that frosting in our near future, Holidash asked Buddy Valastro, the eponymous "Cake Boss" of TLC's reality television show, for cake-related advice. (Season three of "Cake Boss" is just getting underway, premiering on May 31.)
Holidash: Let's start with weddings! Do you meet brides or engaged couples who get overwhelmed at the sheer scope of the wedding cake styles? What advice do you offer them if they just can't decide?
Buddy Valastro: If you can't make a decision, talk to your cake artist about the venue, the style of party you're throwing. What are you into; what does your dress look like? Your invitations? More info about the wedding event will help you focus.
Holidash: Are there certain fail-safe wedding cake flavor combinations that you think work best at this time of year?
BV: Right now, I like a vanilla cake with French vanilla frosting and fresh raspberries.
Holidash: What are some special cake designs you recommend for a graduation party, reaching beyond the standard cap-and-diploma decoration?
BV: I do what I call a mish-mosh cake, with all different interests and accomplishments in that person's life. If they played baseball or football, or if they like a certain kind of music, [I represent that on the cake.] I also ask about their goals and dreams. Let's say they want to be President of the United States -- I might do a Washington cake. And I always like to sneak a little diploma on the side.
Holidash: Could you suggest some fun, creative decoration ideas for an out-of-the-ordinary birthday cake?
BV: I take a similar approach -- it's good to think of the people you're celebrating first. You could do something humorous or sophisticated, depending on their tastes and ages. For a girl turning twenty-one, you could do a cosmo cake, shaped like the cocktail. For a five-year-old [who loves cupcakes] you can do a whole cake that looks like a cupcake.
Holidash: Are you seeing any special summer flavor trends?
BV: Red velvet has become really big. Traditionally it's a southern cake, but it's making its way north. We've been making these nonstop. The key is the cream cheese frosting; you gotta use good cream cheese. We use Philly, that's the truth! It is the most expensive but you get what you pay for.
Holidash: Is there any kind of cake that you dream of doing or something you'd love to experiment with?
BV: I want to do a cake where I actually have to paint a portrait on the cake or replicate a famous painting. It would be on a fondant canvas. My other dream cake would be to make the White House, an entire White House cake, and present it to the President. It would be my honor.
Holidash: The Valastro family and your employees work long hours in an intense environment. What advice would you offer to readers planning a big family event -- do you have any tips about working well together?
BV: You gotta breathe deep and think of the better good of the family. You can't let personalities get too involved. Show that you're thinking of the family; if everybody knows that, they'll fall into line.

chuangyuehuoxian,6-16-2010, 2:08PM
I want to do a cake where I actually have to paint a portrait on the cake or replicate a famous painting. It would be on a fondant canvas. My other dream cake would be to make the White House, an entire White House cake, and present it to the President. It would be my honor.My boyfriend thinks the same with me. He is eight years older than me, lol. We met online at agegaplov e .c om a nice and free place for younger women and older men, or older women and younger men, to interact with each other. Maybe you wanna check out or tell your friends.
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LindaK,6-16-2010, 2:42PM
I am a 40 year old mom from California. I have 3 children, aged 11, 6 and 4. My weight before was 187lbs and my body fat was 36.5%. I was fat and miserable, and my family life and my relationship were suffering. I was not able to do anything with my kids, and I was tired and constantly irritated.
I've always counted calories, but this just wasn't working for me anymore. Someone my husband knows had done the Fat Loss 4 Idiots programme: ( Http://tiny.cc/FatLossTips ) and it had changed his life, so I decided to do it too. I lost 33lbs within 8 months and kept it off.
In the last 3 months, because of my training and desire to be "hot at 40," I've taken this to a new level. The programme taught me how to control my carb intake and I have lost another 17lbs. My current weight is 137,5lbs and my body fat is 24% and dropping.....
My goal was to be a ‘hot’ 40 year old Mamma, and I think I have achieved that and I am very proud of myself, as are my family and friends.
John,6-16-2010, 10:37PM
These posts are childish and appear to be for goldiggers.
I hope you become a dibetic or get Celiac Disease so you can't enjoy these cakes.
Hattie,6-16-2010, 2:34PM
I love him, can you order a cake from his bakery?,from out of state.
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Cathy,6-16-2010, 3:37PM
This man Http://www.cakedecoratinginfoguide.info is an artist when it comes to decorating cakes.
OU812IC?,6-16-2010, 4:43PM
Been to Carlo's bakery MANY times. They have delivered many cakes for us. Just had 2 of them this past weekend. 1 for a birthday and 1 for a dance recital. They are true artists and they taste AWESOME. Frank that works there is the BEST. The entire staff is great too. If you are ever in or near Hoboken Carlo's is a MUST!! If you go on a weekend, be prepared to wait. The pastry's are out of this world. My favorite is the Pignoli tart...If you get the chance go there you won't be disappointed ....Rock on Big Frank.......
American,6-16-2010, 2:38PM
I love Cake Boss... those cakes are beautiful! I can't wait to go to Nj to taste one for myself!
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sam,6-16-2010, 2:40PM
i love cake boss they make the coolest cakes ever
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Rachel,6-16-2010, 2:51PM
I love cake boss. The cakes are something out of this world. I wish I can order cakes and have it shipped to FL.
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Chris,6-16-2010, 3:06PM
This guy has nothing on Duff from Ace of Cakes. He should stick to doing his cookies and pastries which look nice and stop turning out those horrendous cakes. Almost all of them look like a sixth graders art project!!!
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Linda,6-16-2010, 5:08PM
Well then go to Duff's web site and the hell off of Cake Boss. We all love him and think His Cakes are the best. Talk about looking like a child does cakes look and Duffs........All I gotta say....
Cheryl,6-16-2010, 5:49PM
But do you have to give Carlo a $1000 up front? Oh, and I went to Duff's bakery site not too long ago and they don't do public orders. I guess the little people who helped him get to where he is now don't matter anymore now that he's big. And yes, Duff has talent, and that got him far, but it's the customers that gave him the biggest help.
Dana,6-16-2010, 3:08PM
I tried to order a cake from him for my birthday. You have to order at least 6 months in advance, so if you want a cake from him, try to order early.
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xxlilstephxx24,6-16-2010, 3:19PM
I Love Cake Boss
they make the best looking
cakes ever.!
i wish i could try one of thouse
cakes tho.!
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Linda,6-16-2010, 3:29PM
I love watching your show and really enjoy seeing the finished results of your many beautiful cakes.
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kathy,6-16-2010, 3:30PM
frustrating and a waste of time reading advertisements before reading the comments ! I THOUGHT THAT THIS PROBLEM WAS GOING TO BE SOLVED. WHAT HAPPENED ?
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Ken,6-16-2010, 3:45PM
I Think Cake Boss is a great show, Buddy is very talented at his profession, I would love to see a show down between Cake Boss and Ace Of Cakes. I am sure Buddy would do better.
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Bait,6-16-2010, 3:43PM
Chris:
You must be confused. I think you have it in reverse. It is Duff and his people who cannot hope to compare to Buddy Valastro and his people.
Duff's figures look like something my son did with Play-Dough whereas Buddy's creations look like true works of art.
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Jana,6-16-2010, 3:43PM
Cream cheese frosting on a Red Velvet Cake???? YUK!!! This cake was originally published in newspapers decades ago and originated from the Waldof-Astoria hotel in New York. Nothing but a white roux buttercream frosting for a Red Velvet Cake. EVER!!!
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Bait,6-16-2010, 3:47PM
I have heard so much about Red Velvet cakes and truly thought they were a southern tradition. I have never tasted this cake. What is the flavor and what is a white roux buttercream frosting - do you have a recipe for the frosting? I already have a cake recipe although I have not yet tried to bake it.